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How We Built Our Home While Working Full Time
We were full-time working parents who built their dream home on 20 acres with ZERO prior experience. Here's how we made it work.
Dani
2 days ago6 min read


Buying Land for the First Time: What No One Tells You
What you should know before buying land that might surprise you.
Dani
Mar 74 min read


What to Measure Before You Buy: The No-Regret Furniture Guide
Buying furniture is exciting. Returning furniture is not. Before you click “add to cart” or fall in love with something in a showroom, there are a few critical measurements that can save you time, money, and a whole lot of frustration. Here’s exactly what to measure before you buy.
Dani
Mar 32 min read


How We Budgeted for Land + A Custom Home
From unexpected flooring costs to skipping extra square footage, here’s how we built a 2,201 sq ft farmhouse we could actually sustain — without stretching beyond our means.
Dani
Feb 274 min read


Why I Stopped Chasing Bigger
Why I stopped chasing a bigger house and chose a 2,201 sq ft home instead. A perspective on modest living, peace, and building intentionally
Dani
Feb 232 min read


How to Stay Patient When Your Dream Home Feels So Far Away
This was once our dream too. It's not so out of reach for you! The waiting can feel heavy, but don't compare your beginning to someone else's end.
Dani
Feb 163 min read


Room-by-Room Finish Checklist
A practical guide to help you make finish decisions without overwhelm, regret, or missed details.
Dani
Feb 52 min read


Budget Splurges vs. Saves in Our Custom Build
Our hits, our misses, and what I’d do again (or skip) if we built another home.
Dani
Jan 294 min read


My Most-Asked Questions — Answered
Instead of answering the same things one-by-one, I wanted to put everything in one place — so here are my most-asked questions, answered honestly and in one spot.
Dani
Jan 224 min read


How to Budget Smart Without Sacrificing Your Vision
I had big visions for our house. Not “Pinterest-everything” big, but intentional big. I knew exactly how I wanted certain spaces to feel and how our budget walked hand in hand with it.
Dani
Jan 163 min read


How We Got a Construction Loan as Our Own General Contractor (Owner-Builder)
How we proved to manage the risk for a bank considering us for a construction loan to build our modern farmhouse.
Dani
Jan 133 min read


Things That Went Wrong During Our Build Process
When you’re building a home, you want to prepare for everything. You want to be ahead of every possible curveball. But the honest truth? Some things are going to happen no matter how prepared you are.
Dani
Jan 94 min read


What Actually Helped My Post-Baby Weight Loss
What worked and didn't work when trying to lose the baby weight.
Dani
Jan 53 min read


The One Tool I Wish I Had During Our Custom Home Build
If I could go back and give my past self one thing during our custom home build, it wouldn’t be a bigger budget or a faster timeline. It would be this tool.
Dani
Dec 31, 20252 min read


How I Lost the Weight (10lbs in 8 weeks)
After sharing my weight loss on Instagram recently, my DMs were flooded with questions like:
“How did you do it?”
“I can’t seem to move the scale no matter what I do.”
“How did you even get started?”
Dani
Dec 29, 20253 min read


Things I Didn’t Think Of (But You Should) When Building Your Custom Home
Things I Didn’t Think Of (But You Should) When Building Your Custom Home
Dani
Dec 22, 20253 min read


The Home Build Questions I Get Every Single Week (Finally Answered)
I get messages about building a home almost daily. Some version of: Where do I even start? Do I need a GC? How long does this actually take? What order does everything happen in? And every time, I think the same thing — there is no way a DM can do this topic justice. So instead of half-answers and voice notes sent at midnight, I sat down and worked weewy weewy hawd (iykyk) to put everything into one simple, no-fluff Google Doc you can actually use. This isn’t something I’m
Dani
Dec 11, 20252 min read


6 Tips to Survive A Home Build (and keep your sanity & marriage intact)
Funny, honest take on the rollercoaster of decision fatigue, delays, and compromises.
Dani
Dec 8, 20253 min read


Monthly Favorites | November 2025
My monthly favorites from November that will not disappoint!
Dani
Nov 30, 20252 min read


How to Create a Home You’ll Grow Into, Not Out Of
How to design a timeless and cozy home.
Dani
Nov 21, 20253 min read
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